Life is about chances you’ll never get back (Dawson’s Creek)
The guy you’re with (or the guy you fall into at a certain period of time) describes who you are, the emotional state you are in; and portrays in which stages you are in life.
I’ve come to the day when I realized that I don’t want a roller-coaster ride. That I’m tired of the emotional ups-and-downs, or an endless love-and-hate relationship, and I no longer fall for jerks or bad boys in the name of (mythical) ‘opposite attraction’.
At this stage of my life, I just want to be in a Ferris wheel.
The ups-and-downs were certain–it runs in such a smooth cycle that you don’t fall into pieces or scream like a mad woman. It’s still and calm, soothing and relaxing. And the more similarities I share with the guy I’m with, the more comfortable the relationship would be.
13 Comments
November 6, 2009 at 7:21 am
Like this!!
November 6, 2009 at 7:24 am
*pelukpeluk*
November 6, 2009 at 7:29 am
you’re right hanny, at the end, we want the calm and safe trip, not the one that fly you high and bump you hard to the ground afterward. so, have you found that one?
November 6, 2009 at 9:20 am
UHUK *numpang terbatuk* ….
November 6, 2009 at 11:10 am
*sodorin obat batuk buat @didut*
November 6, 2009 at 9:57 am
but that roller coaster ride is what we called “life”, Han.. It’s unpredictable, full of surprise. I thought life with that ferris wheel ride would be boring
November 6, 2009 at 10:04 am
@chic: there were times in my life when I (actually, until a few weeks ago, I have always) wanted that roller coaster ride. but what I need (and want) at the moment is the still and relaxing Ferris wheel, with its less-chaotic ups-and-downs. maybe I’ve had enough of those unpredictability and surprises (both pleasant and non-pleasant ones). and at this stage of my life, I just wanna chill…
November 6, 2009 at 11:07 am
What a wise wish. Really.
November 6, 2009 at 11:10 am
@hedi :p
November 7, 2009 at 5:19 am
herman… koq kau blom komen siiih?
*menghilang*
November 8, 2009 at 12:08 pm
i want both… roller coaster ride and relaxing Ferris wheel…
tentu saja dalam waktu yg berbeda… masing2 punya tantangan dan sensasi yang berbeda…
November 9, 2009 at 11:06 am
… of course, it’ll be a bit ‘boring’ compared to the roller coaster. you’ll need time to adjust to the speed
but from my personal experience, it’s not a problem at all
. i’m enjoying my ferris wheel now!
November 13, 2009 at 4:08 am
i fully agree with you, coonteel…
the more we have common interests, the smoother our roads ahead will be…